Time is a great Healer

Was looking through my note books left from my studies and discovered some notes of my early writing. It was very interesting because I was writing about some pain I was going through at that time but now I can barely remember anything.

Is it true they say "Time is a great healer"? Or it's just I handled those hard times and decided to bury them in the past and live today?

There are many situations in life when we think we are victims of circumstances, but whatever life flings at us we may not have control over, but we definitely have control over our response to anything happens to us.

We learn from our mistakes and handling something once you state to yourself "Next time I will not do it\or do it differently!" Yes agreed, there are many different ways to handle the same situations, and the results will come out differently and it is the way we can control our life by. The same ingredients make the same kind of salad, but change the ingredients and you get a different one. The hardest thing is to believe that we have choices in the way things will work out, and the consequences of the choices are what heals.

Some people like my grandmother go through a lifetime not being able to find relief from emotional pain because they go through their life without making the changes they need to make to enable them to heal. My gma was hurt many years ago and she still keeps this pain\offence inside that bothers her and affects her health and the relationships with other members of the family. It's sad but until she realizes how powerful our minds are she wouldn’t be released from this pain. What's the most interesting her analysis are perfect and docs cant find a reason to her high blood pressure. The basic thing to accept is that our minds are more powerful than our bodies. Even if we were in a metal container at the bottom of the deepest ocean our minds are still free, and the way we think can affect us in every situation.

I have read in the Shack book God asked Mac "Where do you live Mac - in the past, present or in the future?" And Mac said that Most of the time he lives in the past and also plans something for the future which doesn’t leave him time to live in the present. "As most of the people do" - God stated! And it is true! Most of the people make plans for the future trying to foresee what will happen and be ready for it. But there is no future! There is NOW and TODAY! You can look back at your past but no longer than for a minute and only to remember great times and cherish memories.

People like my gma live in the past and no matter how much time it has been it wouldn't heal them until they make a choice.

And I don’t state it easily! I know sometimes it's easy to be said than to be done. But it is what makes us stronger throughout whole our life and what is called "life experience"!

Happiness is in our hands holding them together with the love ones.